Are you working with clients with dementia? Or does a family member have dementia? We talk to Aly Townley, Best Practice Winner, about connecting with her mother through the Story Massage Programme. Aly finds that the combination of caring touch with familiar stories brings comfort and relaxation – and is a fun activity for them both.
Choosing Massage Stories
“At first, I wrote quite elaborate massage stories about her childhood,” says Aly, who has trained in the Story Massage Programme, “It is a wonderful way to share memories about getting ready for a tin bath by the fire, remembering the gas mask for school, going down to the shop with the ration book etc. It was lovely to see her relax and listen to the words the story.”
“When Mum’s dementia got worse she preferred simple nursery rhymes or simple songs … and she still does,” says Aly, “She isn’t able to join in the words but she hums or whistles along. She often puts her hand where she wants me to massage – arms, head, hands or back – and she sometimes copies my movements with her hands so I know she is enjoying it.”
More about the Story Massage Programme
The programme of ten simple massage strokes combines the benefits of nurturing touch with words. It is enjoyed by people of all ages -from babies to the elderly. The strokes each have a name, such as The Circle or The Sprinkle, and an easy to recognise symbol making it accessible for all. It is a fully inclusive activity, no clothing is removed and no oil is used. You can see an example of a nursery rhyme as a positive touch activity below.
Would you like to train in the Story Massage Programme?
If you would like to use the programme at home or work then you will love our flexible online course. All the information is here: Online Training Course.
You will learn how to share the ten Story Massage strokes, adapt familiar stories and even create some sensory stories of your own. Ideal for well-being coaches, therapists, teachers, SEN staff, support staff, Early Years practitioners, those working with people with additional needs, everyone with an interest in sharing positive touch activities with adults or children.
Massage and Dementia
Our Story Massage course does not include specific advice on working with people with dementia. If you are unfamiliar with this field of work then we suggest that you take extra training to gain the necessary skills and knowledge. You can find more information about a popular accredited day course here: Massage for Dementia run by Nicolle Mitchell.
Story Massage in Care Homes
If you have found Aly’s blog helpful, then do read about the inspiring work of Clare Gibbons with adults in care facilities in New Zealand. Story Massage for Adults in Care Homes.